Little White Bungalow: The Reality of What Would Be.
I had been feeling sad and hurt by a false reality. If I had known then what I know and saw now, I wouldn’t have put so much on us, on him.
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Sara Hocking
Winning with Ourselves.
We’ve confused pain and losing ourselves with love, belonging and connection. We've set ourselves up to make winning with ourselves incredibly difficult.
Let Go of Letting Go.
What if the real work is not to let go, but to carefully cradle what is left, to make a space within yourself for the expansion of your aching heart?
Accepting Anger as Alchemy.
After anger, we are no longer in denial. When the disappointment is digested through, we will have to grieve what we had needed but did not get.
The Day I Tried to Kill Myself.
I finally let out the tears that I’d been holding back all day and hoped that the sound of running water would muffle my cries.
A Queen’s Quest for Sovereignty and How It Led to Divorce. {Part Four}
There is no point at which I say, “There, I am totally free. I am sovereign. Crown me Queen.” No, it’s more like, “I’m doing my best.”
Stop Making This Mistake in Your Relationships.
Interrogate the beliefs created by painful experiences, and change them if they prevent you from having the loving and trusting relationships you want now.
The Dark Nights of My Soul.
It is meant to last for a long time, so the soul can descend down and down and down, into the dark matter of unconscious debris, trauma and wounding.
The Holy Temple Gates. {poetry}
May you know the holy through the songs of climax and ecstasy
And my love, let us remember,
Not to lose ourselves in ceremony
How Does Your Loved One Measure Up?
What if our little girl or little boy comes to us one day and shares that they’re not our little girl or little boy? How does one measure this?