Life is a continual dance of polarity. The ancient tantrics knew it. And anyone who regularly enjoys mind-blowing sex and happy relationships knows it.
Addiction, injustice, neediness, neglect, heartbreak, loneliness -- these are values that need to be addressed and transformed. These are Act Two problems.
I have been able to show up as myself, be honest about who I am and my expectations, and attract the people I want instead of the people I feel I deserve.