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Be the Change & Heal This Planet.

I cannot change what has happened in Orlando, or Dallas, or other places far away, but I can change the small part of the world where I live, by touching the lives of those I come in contact with.

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You Might not Think of Me, but I Dream of You.

You were brilliant, caring, smart, handsome... I could not say a bad word against you. And that's what was so confusing. I walked out of a perfectly perfect relationship.

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Tired Goddess, Let Down Your Hair‏.

When is the last time you knew that your ecstatic deep breaths ignite the very fire in your soul? That your own deepest pleasure is saving your life? The night you made love in the woods with the fireflies, a holy shroud around you both? You could not get enough, and you would beg for more. ...

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He Never Hit Me. You Can’t See My Wounds.

But whenever I tried to discuss my concerns with him, it was never the right time. It was too early in the morning or too late at night, he was too busy with work, or he hadn’t slept well the night before and was too tired. When I finally forced the conversation and demanded to be treated ...

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The Magnetic Attraction Between Narcissists and Those with Low Self-Esteem.

That’s precisely how a narcissist and a low self-esteem individual can be magnets to one another. Both see the golden luster of the other, and want to catch it to prove themselves that they are able to be partnered with very attractive people.

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8 Ways to Survive a Friend Break-Up.

There was a time in your life that you did the same shit... You walked away without even trying, without even communicating. Might have happened in third grade or just last year. You're not making allowances for behavior, you're just realizing that everyone does stupid hurtful things sometimes, ...

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Never Quit Loving, Do It with Your Heart Wide Open.

My love is a chaos endured by a ritual of blood, sweat and tears... as a willingness to hold space for your tomorrow because you are unable to rise in your love today. Oh yes, such love is being brave enough to tattoo your soul with its higher vibration. Feeling it. Beyond rationality. Beyond ...

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Happy Sex After Rape: My Search for Pleasure After Trauma.

I am not writing this as a professional sex therapist. While I am trained and certified in various fields of therapy, I am writing this as a woman who has blossomed and is still blossoming after sexual trauma. I am writing this as a woman who is a sexual being, and was a sexual being before she ...

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It Is not the Storm That Slays Me.

I'm the shipwreck that is still throwing down an anchor. Still trying to secure my shattered pieces to something stable. If I can just hold on to something solid, I'll be whole again. I'm told I will get through this, that I'll move past this. Those words are a waterfall that washes over me, ...

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Caring for Your Creative: Curiosity and a Question.

What have you identified as or with for so long that you have worn yourself silly? I have tugged up Yoga tops, closed the collars of shirts, and only ever worn bathing suits that cover my chest -- except on the rare occasions when I am with my women friends or sisters with whom I swim naked or ...

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