There have been many times where I spent hours crawling through the dirt, pulling out invasive plants, only to get up and wonder if I accomplished anything.
Shojin Ryori practitioners are able to turn vegetarian cooking into a pathway towards awakening. And we can do the same by simply living every day with a full heart.
Intellectually, I understand the teaching of impermanence. I get that everything changes. I understand that relationships are no exception to the rule.