Your fears and your pain are relevant... Self-love can be the most painful journey, but it is also the most worthwhile. For wherever you go, there you are.
Girls, what if instead of limiting yourself to being pretty, well-dressed, sexy, or skinny, you could simply be genuinely loving, kind and compassionate? Boys, what if instead of limiting yourself to being macho, rich, or popular, you could simply allow yourself to be open, genuine, and maybe ...
I may have played you a sentimental tune -- in remorse for all that you have lost, while you were focusing on the right feelings for the wrong person. This song would not come from a place of hurt, but from a place of wonder. As I wonder why you do not see in yourself what I see so deeply in you.