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Adventure: the Cure for Stagnant Safety.

Courage trumps doubt. Faith trumps fear. And going on an adventure does not necessarily mean you have to fly across the country. It just means that you have to be willing to step outside your comfort zone.

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“You Intimidate Him” And Other Laughable Bullshit We Tell Ourselves.

He was not intimidated by you or 'too immature' or 'too busy' or 'not ready for commitment' (my absolute favorite), he just did not love you.

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Name the ‘It’ That You Long For and Let the Rest Go.

I don’t want to carry my heart around like a burden anymore. I long for connection and compassion and partnership.

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Full Moon in Aries: Don’t Settle for Comfort, Out of Fear of the Unknown.

Aries asks that we open our eyes and pay attention to where we may be slipping into some co-dependent situations, and be aware of the unhealthiness that is rising because of it. Also ensure that you don't settle back down in the mud of what is comfortable, out of fear of the unknown.

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The Struggle of Your Becoming: Why It’s Necessary & What Will Save Your Ass.

It can actually feel like ecstasy if one drops their prejudices and embraces their feelings with curiosity and compassion. I started playing with it and getting truly ecstatic, and if it doesn't feel great, I am now able to still be with it, and feel it. My ego is going mad, but this terror ...

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You Are the Chorus of My Song Called Life.

I chose you to sit next to me in my recliner to listen to our song called Life. And Life meant our first missions trip to Nepal. Life meant picking out a downsized home. Life meant sorting through medical bills together.

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Being Reborn As The Butterfly That I Am.

I realize now, looking back at my journey of transformation, which felt more as a transmutation -- a death/rebirth process -- what I went through was an energetic, alchemical process that changed my whole consciousness and, consequently, my self-identity, the process akin to what a caterpillar ...

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The Truth Beneath The Masks We Wear.

Have I become so comfortable in my discomfort, so accustomed to dying in my daily living, that I now embody a midnight mask to replace the false cheeriness of my childhood's plight? And what if I am not either or, but both, strands of black and gold that weave the web of my spider's heart?

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What I Know About Grief.

You are tender rage and gutted yearning. You are the softness waiting in the afterglow of fright. You are the architect of your wreckage. But you will never defeat grief. Because you are so much more than grief, it wouldn't ever be a fair fight.

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The Surrender House: Come And Rest, Weary Traveler.

We may abide together according to the gentle ebb and flow of the passing days. I make no demands of you. We are old friends, you and I. In a childhood long since forgotten, you once blossomed and flourished here. Your innocent laughter joyously echoed from my walls. Your carefree bare ...

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