Warrior Woman, I See You and Believe You.
We have all ages alive inside of us right now, and we can go back and resource ourselves in the past. I believe we can do this for others too.
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crush
Why I Ghosted My Best Friend.
The next night, I went to hear a band play with a friend. One of the men at the bar expressed interest in me. We talked a long while.
What Being Ace Means to Me: Asexual Musings.
I don’t need to defend myself, but I feel I need to advocate for us asexual middle-agers who -- despite who we were before, whatever the hell came before, who we fucked, loved, identified as, whatever -- are whole now.
Your First Choice Is Rarely the Optimal Choice: 5 Lessons on Being Wrong.
Think of the first person you dated. Would this person have been the best choice for your life partner? Go even further back, and imagine the first person you had a crush on. Finding a great partner is complicated, and expecting yourself to get it right on the first try is unreasonable. It’s ...
Your First Crush Is Power.
I’m so thankful that my wise 12- year-old self knew it wasn’t truly about the boy. It was a spell I was casting on myself. It was, ultimately, a lifeline in a challenging passage.