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Write away Walls, Welcome Love in.

Trauma changes you. Past experiences of hurt, abandonment and rejection create the need for protection. For me, love from others became something to fear and distrust. Over time, I came to believe that I wasn't worthy of real love. Obviously, if they don't love me, no one else will, I told ...

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Get Burned: Ignite the Fiery, Ferocious Trail to Forgiveness.

Sometimes, you just have to burn it down. You have to find your flame, burn it all down, and rise up out of the ashes. You won’t be the same, you will be changed, but your weapons will be powerful. Made of sweat, dirt, tears, anger, compassion for yourself, and new knowledge about the life ...

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The Myth About Nature-Dwellers.

Be who you are. Get rid of these ideas of what you should or shouldn’t be doing. I hear so many people say they would love to go out in nature more, or that they just went to an event because they had to. Well, what if you didn’t have to? What if you can choose to do what 'you' would like to ...

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Never Let Someone Tell You That You Are Too Much Or Not Enough.

I had a big last fight with my ex from long ago before we finally broke up, and he told me that I should lose weight. So, I spent the next two years after the breakup struggling with the acceptance of my own body. I literally hated my body. In the mirror, I saw a bare-faced, obese ugliness. It ...

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I Jumped On The Self-Love Bandwagon — Here’s Why.

I focused on a revolution for myself. A completely non-judgmental re-calibration of understanding what works for me and what doesn't work for me. An overhaul. I'm not quite sure why I was surprised at what I found. Because the answer to all of the questions I'd been asking was Love.

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Is It Love Or Addiction?

We continue to want the same thing from this individual, not realizing that after a while, we don’t enjoy it, and maybe we never did, yet we still need it. The moments of comfort and bliss are fleeting. A feeling of emptiness prevails.

you & me

Less Judgment, More Empathy.

Empathy is significant for the elimination of judgment. It lets people off the hook. It gives second chances. It changes outcomes. It builds bridges. It eliminates gossip.

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Risky Choices: What’s The Right Thing To Do?

All I feel is love and gratitude, if I put my ego aside, that occasionally wants to complain and rather point out all the things that sucked -- which is okay and normal too, just don’t let it run the show. Don’t be afraid of doing epic shit. Don’t be afraid of looking silly.

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Marker In The Woods: Using Discernment As A Tool To Better Understand Life.

If we can observe an instinct, emotion or quality through the lens of having both a positive and negative expression, we can build our discernment in any given circumstance to aid in reclaiming our sovereignty through trusting our inner sight. Here are a few examples of how we can use this tool ...

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Rumi, Jake Sully, And A Starry, Starry Night.

Thinking of those no longer around, how I wish to speak with them now, standing on my balcony, the sun shining magnificently, so utterly lovely for winter. The birds share their songs, selflessly. The trees readying themselves with fresh buds and herbs starting to grow.

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