It can actually feel like ecstasy if one drops their prejudices and embraces their feelings with curiosity and compassion. I started playing with it and getting truly ecstatic, and if it doesn't feel great, I am now able to still be with it, and feel it. My ego is going mad, but this terror ...
There is a story behind every apology, but if the story will negate the truth of the apology because it comes across as excuses, then should it really be given?
We must first modify the system and the white behavior that has created this whole mess to begin with. Just as gender equality cannot be attained until we men change our dominant ways, racial equality will only occur when white folks decide to step aside, step down and make room for everyone else.
Me: “How did the surgery go?” Doctor: “Your wife has cancer. She is in the recovery room, do you want to tell her or shall I do it?” Me: “I will tell her.” I saw my beautiful wife, eyes closed like an angel, asleep in the recovery room at the hospital. We were exactly five minutes ...