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Postcard to a Long-Distance Lover.

Distance away has morphed me into a calmer version of me, and unlocked my gifts. My roots that once attempted to tangle me up in a conspired plot are begging for my newfound essence to nourish them.

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I’m Taking Back ‘I Love You’. {fiction}

Once upon a time, 'I love you' was reserved for lovers. Sure, that’s the obvious one, but even that doesn’t fit all the time.

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The Prison of Helping.

I mistook saving for partnership. I let 'I want you' be just as good as 'I love you', and I tried to fill in all the gaps with good effort.

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Yes, I Know It Hurts: a Universe Full of Turbulent Hearts.

Yes, I know it hurts. But I want to tell you that I will be the button you press when life is falling over you and you just need to press an emergency button to release the thick of it.

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Weaving Webs Through the Vacuous Hole of Worthlessness.

I am a worthless human being, and I simply can’t affirm or meditate or pray my way out of it. It’s liberating, in a strange way, to know this.

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Choosing Convenience Over Love.

In a time when we are exposed to, and can have relationships with, a population of people around the world never before imaginable, why then turn around and limit ourselves because of this very same geographical distance?

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What Being Ace Means to Me: Asexual Musings.

I don’t need to defend myself, but I feel I need to advocate for us asexual middle-agers who -- despite who we were before, whatever the hell came before, who we fucked, loved, identified as, whatever -- are whole now.

feminism

Message for the Feminine: True Love Is Waiting for You.

True Love is about to meet you in your truth, and your truth is the magnificence of your feminine heart. Don’t be afraid to rise, don’t try to be less than who you are in the name of love, don’t dim your light to keep a man.

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To the Single Ladies: Return to Self, You Are Love.

I am love, I am the wave and God is the ocean. Because I am love, I can only attract love, and because I am love, I can never exist outside of love, I can never be lonely because loneliness is the absence of love.

wisdom

5 Love Lessons I Learned from My Marriage to a Gay Man.

Sending my daughters, all of our daughters, out into the world as women empowered by their sexuality is the treasure I have found beneath the ruins of my marriage.

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