People Who Transform Their Mess Into Their Mission.
Seeing lessons in trauma is what separates people who stay in their ‘poor me’ story for years from those who become role models for change.
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Sex Is Good, but Have You Tried Fucking the System?
Life is a continual dance of polarity. The ancient tantrics knew it. And anyone who regularly enjoys mind-blowing sex and happy relationships knows it.
Love Isn’t Complicity With Racist/Sexist Systems.
When you see people out there getting MAD AF in 2020, don't shrink away, enlighten yourself enough to see it as the truest expression of unconditional love.
Is It Worth Defending Your Rightness at the Expense of Owning Your Power?
Do you create a reality of peace, or do you stay in victimhood because you’re 'right'? No one has power over you unless you give it to them.
How A Breakup With My Long-Term Lover Cracked My Heart Open.
There are a lot of beliefs of how breakups should be. We tossed out all the etiquette, felt all the feelings together, and stayed really connected.
To My Abuser: You Need to Know You Didn’t Break Me.
You need to know you didn’t break me. I am stronger than I have ever been. I fight daily to assure that people know their value and their worth.
Saudade and the Struggle of Our Past Choices.
When the whole load was thrown at us, it makes it harder to make a choice without falling into the power struggles of the victim and persecutor roles.
Why I Posted ‘Me Too’ as My Status, and Why It Still Matters.
I’ve been ogled at, cat-called, and groped in ways that left me feeling small, ugly, icky, angry, uncool, too sensitive. I think it’s enough to say, #MeToo.
To the Man Who Tried to Kill Me.
You are a narcissist, and I was your perfect victim. The purest part of my soul feels sorry for you; you will never know love, you will never know trust, or beauty, or friendship.
Listen To The Pleas From Your Inner Child: They Are The Key.
As I began to acknowledge my inner children, see them, hear them and love them, their unmet needs became easier to recognize and they began reaching out to me in healthier, less destructive ways.