When I don’t know what to do about someone or something, it's much better if I do nothing, except make another donation to the can. Let Goddess sort it out.
We can find the Dark Mother in Goddess-worshiping traditions. Kali, Hindu Goddess of creation, destruction and shadow, is often depicted with dark skin.
You will heal humanity, not by bearing children, but birthing the empowered you who asks her man to break out of his patriarchal training to be her match.