Stripped of the things that damaged them -- jealousy and the rage that ensued -- they were free to be vulnerable once more. Lying there naked, the sincerity underpinning the relationship that had once allowed it to flourish was palpable.
Love free of understanding is not the antidote to hate, because it doesn't demand the practitioner to show up. But rigorous understanding? That's the way we stand up to fear, and the way we begin to dismantle hate.
Intellectually, I understand the teaching of impermanence. I get that everything changes. I understand that relationships are no exception to the rule.