archives, you & me Dear Masculine, Stop Wasting Your Heart on Cleaning up Messes. Stop cleaning up your heart before you let someone in. Stop putting away the parts that aren't strong. The places in you that aren't finished yet. Continue Reading
archives, you & me My Decree of Self-Ownership for My Lovers. I am your lover, and I will ravage you and be ravaged. I will wake you up in the middle of the night to make love, and I will let you sleep in. Continue Reading
archives, you & me Dear Masculine, You Deserve Better. Masculine, society has done you a disservice. We have told you to kill your soul fire... but that keeps you from doing anything at all. Continue Reading
archives, you & me 3 Stages of How a Strong Woman Finds Herself. Her money, health, sex, joy, purpose, all come easily here, for she's resigned to being free and just letting it all be easy. Continue Reading
archives, you & me Woman, Trust Your Desire, Even Without the ‘Right’ Body. I ask her to trust that desire, without the great lover, without the 'right' body, without the permission from anyone else but her own. Continue Reading
archives, troublemakers Dear Goddess Movement, I Want to Knock down My Walls. I want to be messy, and yearn for and feel what it is to be in a relationship that yearns right back. No longer alienating men, but inviting them in. Continue Reading
you & me Spend Less Energy Blaming Someone Else: There’s No Such Thing as ‘Fuckboys’. Create what you desire by taking your time and saving your sex for someone who honors you, instead of that which gives you a hint of flattery and desire. Continue Reading
world An Open Letter to Louis CK: How Can We Heal Our Society? Society betrayed you too. Our hatred of sex, our shame, created a system which taught you it was acceptable to hide, then act out. Continue Reading
you & me To My Daughter, When You Love. And remember: whether love is here or it is gone, you are strong, and I do not worry that loss could break you or make you less. Continue Reading
poetry Swim Me Home. {poetry} I kissed you before I kissed you. In how I hated waiting. When I went home that night and played through all other possible scenarios in my head. Continue Reading