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The Price of Pleasing.

The price they pay for your pleasing is their freedom. The freedom to have their own experiences, their own feelings and emotions that may have nothing to do with you. The price you pay for your pleasing is your truth.

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Ask for My Permission and Watch Me Melt: A Compilation of First Kisses and Enthusiastic Consent.

I guess I don’t have much to add to the discussion that hasn’t already been said, but can we please just stop teaching our boys that the only option is to consistently be on the hunt? Like, with a little softness, the gazelle will come to you very willingly, the kink can come later.

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You Are the Composer of Your Own Song.

Of course there was no song playing, and I realized that I have been the 'composer' all this time. Getting real is where it all starts.

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To the Open-Minded Men: Dissolve the Patriarchy with Us.

I say I want to destroy the patriarchy and create a new world order. It doesn’t exclude you -- it includes you like never before. From few at the top, to equal place for all.

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Emotionally Unavailable Partners: You Attract What You Are, Not What You Want.

Although I've yet to find my forever partner, I make myself more and more open, transparent and vulnerable with every relationship.

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The Hard Masculine Mask Is Not You.

The world was a lot for her. It was hardened and callous. Rushed and overly structured. So she began to create this mask for herself.

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Looking for Love? Look Inside: Falling Apart to Fall in Place.

I desired ultimate care and unconditional love, something I hadn’t received as a child. So what I did was basically walking around, looking for a parent.

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Shed Youthful Preconceptions and Fathom the Depths That Follow.

Learn not to judge the homeless, the divorced, the childless women, the addicts, the mentally ill. We all f*** up at some point. They had dreams too, and are not weird because they defaulted from convention. Simply, through no fault of their own, their plans just did not work out. But a greater ...

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Wrangling with Our Shadow Side.

I’m holding in my body so much anger and humiliation, and I’m lashing out at the one who hurt me. There is a real confusion in my heart as to why we found ourselves in this place. I have lost confidence in who I am and my place in the world... My shadow side is the pure expression of my hurt, ...

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To the Openhearted Men: I Applaud You.

Men who have gone through hardship, and have emerged on the other side and learned something from it. Those who are willing to share these hard-earned lessons with others, and truly desire to see those less fortunate having the same better life as well.

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